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“I'm totally vulnerable to all conditions of existence all the time, no matter where I go or how good I am. Really getting this deconditions me from illusion and entitlement. It’s a fast track to letting go of the ego. To say yes, to the conditions of existence liberates me. I face them directly rather than F.A.C.E them, with fear, attachment, control, and entitlement.”

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Book:How to Be an Adult in Love: Letting Love in Safely and Showing It Recklessly
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How to Be an Adult in Love: Letting Love in Safely and Showing It Recklessly

This book explores the complexities of adult love, offering advice on building secure connections and expressing affection without fear. more

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David Richo
David Richo

David Richo is an American writer born in 1940. His works primarily focus on personal growth, spiritual cultivation, and interpersonal relationships, which are well-received by readers. more

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