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“It is not my purpose here to document the destruction caused by war [...] The point is to ask ourselves why these accounts have not had greater effect. [...] Why is it that many of us are deeply moved by visual art, fiction, and firsthand accounts of destruction and yet accept war as a means of resolving conflict or defending ourselves?”

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Book:Peace Education: How We Come to Love and Hate War
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Peace Education: How We Come to Love and Hate War

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Nel Noddings
Nel Noddings

Nel Noddings is an American philosopher known for her contributions to moral philosophy and feminist philosophy. Her research focuses on educational ethics and care ethics, emphasizing the mutual care between educators and students. more

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