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“Obliterate the fallacy, let's love. Praise the adoration, let's love. Now both of us have leisure, let's love. Love needs both of us, let's love. There is no peril pronto, let's love. Thanks to love, let's love.”

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“... when you can’t read - or hear - the signs that tell you about a Person’s educational level or background, your attraction becomes above all physical. The result? It can be only too easy to get sexually involved with - and possibly married to - someone who when it fines to long-term relationships turns out to be totally unsuitable.”

Relationships Relationship Attraction Physical Attraction Sexual Relationships Doomed Romance Irreconcilable Differences Doomed Relationship Unsuitable Partners

Book:My Home Sweet Rome: Living (and loving) in Italy's Eternal City

Source: My Home Sweet Rome: Living (and loving) in Italy's Eternal City

“From the point of view of the partial drive, this other person is always a means, and he/she never becomes a goal in him/herself. In pragmatic terms, this suggests that the drive does not require a person as a subject in any way. The movement of the partial impulse is that of an arc, a boomerang, that passes over the other person, returns to itself, and closes in on itself, creating a totality, a completed action, self- gratification.”

Psychology Relationship Objectification

Author:Paul Verheage

“Therefore the goal of the partial drive is not the other person, the goal is to achieve a particular form of gratification. In this respect, the other person is actually superfluous as a subject and can sometimes even be an obstacle to pleasure. He or she serves as an object—and actually as a partial object—a means of achieving a goal.”

Psychology Relationship Objectification

Author:Paul Verheage

“The most obvious difference between a drive and love concerns the object, which should no longer be referred to as an object. In contrast with the drive where the object can always be exchanged as an unimportant means to an end, in the case of love, everything turns upon this one irreplaceable other.”

Love Psychology Relationship Objectification Drives

Author:Paul Verheage

“There is barely any room left for the self, and the loved one takes up all the space available. As Freud says: 'A person in love is humble”

Love Psychology Relationship

Author:Paul Verheage

“We should not forget that marriage was and is primarily an economic matter focused on the division of property and on inheritance; that is why marriage and the property-owning classes go hand in hand. The have-nots do not and did not need it. Marriage in the first half of the twentieth century was a co-production by Hollywood and the Vatican, that has undergone significant changes, though the economic basis still survives. For example, this is perfectly expressed in the current need for 'cohabitation contracts', which are no more than a modern version of a marriage certificate, and in particular an arrangement about how goods should be divided.”

Marriage Relationship

Author:Paul Verheage

“There's always a but. It's a magical word. You can say anything you want, go on for as long as you want, and then all you have to do is add the magic word and instantly everything you said is erased, turned meaningless, just like that.”

Humor Truth

Book:You

Source: You

“We allowed each other the gift of separate approaches to the same crisis.”

Loss Grief Marriage Relationship Mourning

Book:Hit Hard: One Family's Journey of Letting Go of What Was--and Learning to Live Well with What Is

Source: Hit Hard: One Family's Journey of Letting Go of What Was--and Learning to Live Well with What Is

“Love was something foreign until he met her.”

Love Relationship Equality Couple Goals

Book:A Kind Of Commitment

Source: A Kind Of Commitment

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