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Excellent Advice for Living: Wisdom I Wish I'd Known Earlier

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Kevin Kelly
Kevin Kelly

Kevin Kelly, born on August 14, 1952, is a seasoned editor with a broad influence in the fields of technology, culture, and art. He has held editing positions at several renowned publishing houses and brought many excellent works to readers. more

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