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Meditations on Violence: A Comparison of Martial Arts Training & Real World Violence

Meditations on Violence is a comparative study that examines the relationship between martial arts and real-world violence. The author analyzes the mental and physical training methods used in martial arts and compares them to the dynamics of actual confrontations. The book aims to provide a deeper understanding of the principles behind self-defense and conflict resolution. more

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Rory Miller
Rory Miller

Rory Miller (born 1971) is an American author, former corrections officer, and self-defense expert. Drawing from his real-world experience in law enforcement and military training, he has written several influential books on self-defense, conflict management, and psychological resilience. His notable works include 'Meditations on Violence' and 'Facing Violence,' which explore the realities of violent encounters, coping strategies, and training methods. Known for his straightforward and practical style, Miller's writings have impacted self-defense trainers and security professionals worldwide. He served as a corrections officer in Oregon and participated in various law enforcement training programs. Miller is also a martial artist with black belts in judo and aikido. His work emphasizes understanding violence from both psychological and physical perspectives, advocating for scenario-based training and critical thinking to enhance personal safety. more

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