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“[B]e comforted in the fact that the ache in your heart and the confusion in your soul means that you are still alive, still human, and still open to the beauty of the world, even though you have done nothing to deserve it. And when you resent the ache in your heart, remember: You will be dead and buried soon enough.”

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Paul Harding
Paul Harding

Paul Harding, born in 1967, is an accomplished musician from the United States. His musical career began with rock bands, but he later shifted towards independent music creation, gaining widespread recognition for his unique musical style and profound lyrical content. more

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