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“My emotional world imploded, and there is nothing that could have been said or done to make it easier. No one was in the wrong, and maybe that is what made it so painful. I wanted someone to blame, but instead got the two people I loved most doing their best to navigate uncharted waters.”

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Sounds Like Me: My Life (So Far) in Song

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Sara Bareilles
Sara Bareilles

Sara Bareilles (born December 7, 1979) is an American singer-songwriter, pianist, and actress. Known for her heartfelt lyrics and distinctive voice, she rose to fame with hits like 'Love Song,' 'Brave,' and 'Gravity.' Her music blends pop, rock, and soul, earning multiple Grammy nominations. Beyond music, she ventured into Broadway, writing and starring in the musical 'Waitress.' Bareilles is celebrated for her independent spirit and feminist stance. more

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