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“Shift your focus from the issue called “peace” for the time being, and place it upon the simple everyday action of acceptance. Build your whole being on the edifice of acceptance, and there will no longer be any need for pompous organizations to bring peace on earth.”

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Book:Fabric of Humanity
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