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“If there ever were one moment where everything worked for us, where we lived in harmony and at ease with our natures, then we would still be there. There is no garden to return to, no idyllic perfect childhood, no enwombed state. The Garden of Eden was boring, childhood is a nightmare we should all be grateful to be done with, and your mother smoked while she was pregnant and poisoned you in the womb with artificial sugar substitutes. The best thing any of us can do is just to keep fucking up in a forward motion, and see what comes out of it.”

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Book:The Dead Ladies Project: Exiles, Expats, and Ex-Countries
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Jessa Crispin

Jessa Crispin is an active cultural critic and editor in contemporary culture. Born in 1978, she is known for her unique perspective and profound insights into literature, art, and cultural phenomena. more

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