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“I mean, back then I believed everything my mother told me. It was that time when you think your parents are all-powerful." 'How would I know?' But she kept that comment to herself. "It's funny, now, as a parent, I realize that it's actually the children who have all the power. If I'd have known that as a child I would have been threatening *her* with El Cuco!”

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Five Midnights

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“छुटकू गिलहरी ने देखा कि खेत में रहने वाला इंसान कागज के पुलिंदे में कुछ देख रहा था। छुटकू के मन में कई दिनों से दबी हुई जिज्ञासा उठ खड़ी हुई। वह जानना चाहती थी कि इंसान कागजों में क्या करता है। हर दिन की तरह उस दिन भी वह बहुत समय से कागज़ों में कुछ किए जा रहा था।”

“छुटकू गिलहरी को याद आ रहा था कि मम्मी ने सजीव और निर्जीव में फ़र्क बताया था। उन्होंने कहा था कि जीवित पेड-पौधों और जानवरों में लचक होती है। जीवित होना यानी लचक होना। अकड़ जाना मौत की निशानी है। उसने पेड़ की डाल से नीचे देखा, सूखी टहनियां और पत्ते अकड़े पड़े थे जबकि जिस हरे-भरे पत्तों वाली पतली-सी टहनी पर छुटकू बैठी थी, वह पत्तों से लदी हुई लचीली डाल थी। उसे बात समझ आ गई थी कि जीवित रहने के लिए लचीला होना ज़रूरी है।”

“अधूरा ज्ञान भयानक स्थिति पैदा कर सकता है। छुटकू को मम्मी की बात याद थी और पत्तियों के सहारे लटकते हुए जीवन का लचीलापन भी समझ आ रहा था। वह नहीं जानती थी कि उसकी यही समझ मुसीबत का कारण बनने वाली है। यहाँ ज्ञान तो था मगर अनुभव नदारद था।”