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“You may have terrible memories from your childhood . . . horrific memories that no one should live through. Especially not a child. If this has been your experience, and you've placed those memories in a vault, locked them away, and buried the key, who could blame you? But, by doing so, what else--besides your memories--have you placed in that vault? May I gently suggest that perhaps you've climbed in there yourself, closed the door, and locked it behind you? If so, you may be effectively locking out those who could help you.”

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Book:What Your Childhood Memories Say about You . . . and What You Can Do about It
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Kevin Leman
Kevin Leman

Kevin Leman, born on September 1, 1943, is an American psychologist known for his research in the fields of family relationships and personal growth. He has helped people improve their family and interpersonal relationships through his unique humorous style and practical advice. more

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