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“But maybe going through that kind of tough, lonely experience is necessary when you're young? Part of the process of growing up? [...] The way surviving hard winters makes a tree grow stronger, the growth rings inside it tighter.”

Quote by Haruki Murakami

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Men Without Women

This book is a compilation of short stories that delve into the intricacies of human connections and the male experience, offering readers a nuanced look at the human condition. more

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Haruki Murakami

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