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“Do you think that to express ideas one doesn't need a heart? One does need it - they are rendered fruitful by love; stretch out a helping hand to the fallen man to raise him, or shed bitter tears over him, if he faces ruin, but do not jeer at him. Love him, remember that he is a man like you, and deal with him as if he were yourself.”

Quote by Ivan Goncharov

Book:Oblomov

Work

Oblomov

Ivan Goncharov's classic novel explores the character of Oblomov, a man who is renowned for his inertia and lack of ambition. The story is set in 19th-century Russia and delves into the themes of social class, personal responsibility, and the human condition. more

Author

Ivan Goncharov
Ivan Goncharov

Russian realist novelist, born on June 18, 1812, and died on September 27, 1891. Ivan Goncharov is renowned for his delicate psychological portraits and profound insights into the life of Russian society. more

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