“Punishment damages goodwill and self-esteem, and shifts our attention from the intrinsic value of an action to external consequences.” SelfActionValuesAttentionSelf EsteemConsequencePunishmentEsteemDamageGoodwillNonviolent CommunicationIntrinsic Value Author:Marshall Rose
“People who believe that they are going to be excommunicated and shamed, or whatever other dark things may happen to them, are much less likely to enter open, loving relationships. And they are also much less likely to have the self-esteem that is required to be monogamous and loving. And in consequence, they are much less likely to create families.” PeopleBelieveMaySelfHappensDarkSelf EsteemConsequenceEsteemDark ThingsLoving Relationships Author:Andrew Solomon
“Productive achievement is a consequence and an expression of health and self-esteem, not its cause.” SelfCausesSelf EsteemExpressionAchievementConsequenceEsteemAccomplishmentProductive Author:Nathaniel Branden
“And in situations where a man and a woman each receive negative feedback, the woman's self-confidence and self-esteem drop to a much greater degree. The internalization of failure and the insecurity it breeds hurt future performance, so this pattern has serious long-term consequences.” MenLongSelfTermHurtSituationGreaterSelf EsteemSeriousDegreesConsequenceNegativePerformancesPatternsSelf ConfidenceEsteemLong TermInsecurityFeedbackNegative Feedback Book:Lean In for Graduates Source: Lean In for Graduates