“When you are constantly reacting to having been wronged (or perhaps to what you may regard as a wrong); when you are always giving in by practically living to defend, retaliating one time after another, again and again, you then spend double that time trying to prove the whole story: because to third parties, you will frequently appear to be on the attack, and therefore potentially receiving attacks once more - henceforth an unending pattern of misunderstood retaliations.” Wasting TimeMisunderstoodReactingMove OnRetaliationDefensiveWasting LifeReactionaryMisunderstood FightsDefending Yourself Author:Criss Jami