“Many men have an investment in women's orgasms. It's as if their masculinity is afflicted if women don't have orgasms. Men have more of a division between affection and sex. Whereas most women are less concerned about sexual function than wanting their partners to be affectionate and caring- they pretend to have orgasms so their partners will feel that they have performed well.” SexSexualityFemale SexualityFemale OrgasmFaking Orgasm Book:The Sexual Self Source: The Sexual Self