“Another misconception is that if we truly loved someone, we will never finish with our grief, as if continued sorrow is a testimonial to our love. But true love does not need grief to support its truth. Love can last in a healthy and meaningful way, once our grief is dispelled. We can honor our dead more by the quality of our continued living than by our constantly remembering the past.” IfsWayNeedsDoeLastsPastRememberGriefQualitySupportHonorSorrowHealthyMeaningfulGrievingOur LoveMisconceptionTruth LoveRemembering The PastTestimonial Author:Judy Tatelbaum
“There is no passion in the mind of man so weak, but it mates and masters the fear of death . . . Revenge triumphs over death; love slights it; honor aspireth to it; grief flieth to it.” MenMindPassionFearGriefMastersHonorWeakRevengeTriumphMatesFear Of Death Author:Francis Bacon
“After the Ankara bombings on October 10, people were asked to hold a minute of silence, but many refused. Our society can't even unite in grief to honor the victims. We've lost our empathy. That's maybe the worst.” PeopleLostGriefSilenceMinutesWorstHonorEmpathyVictimOur SocietyOctoberBombingAnkara Author:Elif Safak
“I surrender it to God, knowing that the pain itself is a product or a reflection of how I am interpreting whatever it is that is causing me pain. Some pain is simply the normal grief of human existence. That is pain that I try to make room for. I honor my grief. I try to be kinder to myself. I give myself time to move through and to process whatever is making me sad.” GivingTryingHumansPainMovingProcessRoomsGriefExistenceKnowingProductsHonorNormalReflectionSurrenderGod KnowsHuman ExistenceKinderInterpreting Author:Marianne Williamson
“I honor my grief. I try to be kinder to myself. I give myself time to move through and to process whatever is making me sad.” GivingTryingMovingProcessGriefHonorKinder Author:Marianne Williamson
“Time is passing. Yet, for the United States of America, there will be no forgetting September the 11th. We will remember every rescuer who died in honor. We will remember every family that lives in grief. We will remember the fire and ash, the last phone calls, the funerals of the children.” ChildrenStatesLastsAmericaRememberForgetUnitedGriefUnited StatesFireHonorDiedPhonesPassingPassingsPatrioticFuneralAshesSeptemberUnited States Of AmericaPhone Calls Author:George W. Bush
“The highest honor that God can confer upon his children is the blood-red crown of martyrdom. The jewels of a Christian are his afflictions. The regalia of the kings that God has made, are their troubles, their sorrows, and their griefs. Griefs exalt us, and troubles lift us.” ChildrenMadeChristianReligiousGriefTroubleBloodKingsHonorSorrowHighestRedLiftsCrownsAfflictionJewelsMartyrdom Author:Charles Spurgeon
“It takes courage to grieve, to honor the pain we carry. We can grieve in tears or in meditative silence, in prayer or in song. In touching the pain of recent and long-held griefs, we come face to face with our genuine human vulnerability, with helplessness and hopelessness. These are the storm clouds of the heart.” HumansHeartLongPainFacesSongPrayerGriefSilenceTearsHonorCloudsStormGenuineGrievingVulnerabilityTouchingHopelessnessFace To FaceHelplessnessStorm Clouds Author:Jack Kornfield
“The vanquished know war. They see through the empty jingoism of those who use the abstract words of glory, honor, and patriotism to mask the cries of the wounded, the senseless killing, war profiteering, and chest-pounding grief.” KnowsWarUseGriefCryHonorGloryEmptyKillingAbstractMaskChestsWoundedJingoism Author:Chris Hedges
“When we come into the present, we begin to feel the life around us again, but we also encounter whatever we have been avoiding. We must have the courage to face whatever is present - our pain, our desires, our grief, our loss, our secret hopes our love - everything that moves us most deeply.” FeelsHas BeensPainFacesMovingDesireLossGriefSecretHonorEncountersAvoidingOur LoveSecret Love Author:Jack Kornfield