“suppose you invest time and effort in designing a new image for yourself. You get home and your husband takes one look and screams, 'Was the other person hurt? I see you've been in a head-on collision.' ... Men hate any change.” MenLooksPersonsHomeHateChangeHurtEffortDesignHusbandAppearanceScreamYour HusbandCollision Book:Don't blame the mirror Source: Don't blame the mirror
“That we would do We should do when we would, for this 'would' changes, And hath abatements and delays as many As there are tongues, are hands, are accidents, And then this 'should' is like a spendthrift sigh, That hurts by easing.” ShouldHandsChangeHurtTongueAccidentsDelaySighSpendthrift Book:The plays of William Shakespeare: With the corrections and illustrations of various commentators Source: The plays of William Shakespeare: With the corrections and illustrations of various commentators
“If you are still being hurt by an event that happened to you at twelve, it is the thought that is hurting you now.” IfsInspirationalStillsGrowthChangeHurtHappenedEventsTwelveBeing HurtStarting AnewHurting You Author:James Hillman