“Maybe learning to live with the question marks, recognizing that closure does not always occur, is all I really needed to do. I hadn't expected, coming from a world that fights to see life's beginnings in black and white, to be so comforted by a shade of gray. The notion of the water child made sense to me. What I had experienced was not a full life, nor was it a full death, but it was a real loss.” MiscarriageWater ChildMizuko Book:Don't Call Me Princess: Essays on Girls, Women, Sex, and Life Source: Don't Call Me Princess: Essays on Girls, Women, Sex, and Life