“When the excessively shy force themselves to be forward, they are frequently surprisingly unsubtle and overdirect and even rude: they have entered an extreme region beyond their normal personality, an area of social crime where gradations don't count; unavailable to them are the instincts and taboos that booming extroverts, who know the territory of self-advancement far better, can rely on.” KnowsSelfForceSocialCrimePersonalityNormalAreasInstinctExtremesRelyRegionsShyTerritoryRudeAdvancementTabooShynessExtroverts Book:U and I: A True Story Source: U and I: A True Story
“Eisenhower managed to begin the Vietnam war by not following his normal instinct of staying out of mischief. In his memoirs, he tells us why we didn't honor the Geneva accords and hold elections in Vietnam: because some 80 percent of the country would have voted for Ho Chi Minh. This is very candid. The sort of thing one might have found in Stalin'smemoirs, had he not made ghosts even of ghosts.” MadeWarCountryMightFoundHonorNormalPercentElectionInstinctFollowingGhostMemoirStayingVietnamAccordVietnam WarMischiefCandidGeneva Author:Gore Vidal
“I wish I could tell you to always follow your heart, but I think it is bad advice. You have a heart, yes, it is true, but also a brain and also a soul. I've come to believe that we love with our brains as much as our hearts. Real Love is not just instinct, but intent...... From year to year, you may not always be the same Jane. This is perfectly normal. A Jane is many Janes in a lifetime.” ThinkingYearsBelieveHeartMayRealSoulWishLove IsBrainAdviceNormalInstinctLifetimeReal LoveJaneFollow Your HeartPerfectly NormalBad AdviceAlways Follow Your Heart Author:Gabrielle Zevin