“When we ignore the prostituted child, we actually lend our hand to their abuse. When we ignore the widow and the orphan in their distress, we actually add to their pain. When we ignore the slave who remains captive, it's us who is entrapping them. When we forget the refugee, it's actually us who is displacing them. When we choose not to help the poor and the needy, we actually rob them. Perhaps the only fair thing to say is that when we forsake the lives of others, we actually forsake our own.” ChildrenHelpingHandsPainForgetPoorFairsAbuseRemainsAddSlaveDistressRefugeeWidowsOrphanNeedyLives Of OthersCaptivesForsakeHelp The Poor Author:Joel Houston
“Let’s suppose that rain washes out a picnic. Who is feeling negative? The rain? Or you? What’s causing the negative feeling? The rain or your reaction? When you bump your knee against a table, the table’s fine. It’s busy being what it was made to be – a table. The pain is in your knee, not in the table. The mystics keep trying to tell us that reality is all right. Reality is not problematic. Problems exist only in the human mind. We might add: in the stupid, sleeping human mind.” TryingMindHumansMadeFeelingsProblemRealityMightPainSleepStupidFineRainNegativeTablesAddBusyReactionsKneesHuman MindKeep TryingBumpsPicnicsNegative Feelings Book:Awareness: Conversations with the Masters Source: Awareness: Conversations with the Masters
“There's an inherent limit to the stress that any material can bear. Water has its boiling point, metals their melting points. The elements of the spirit behave the same way. Happiness can reach a pitch so great that any further happiness can't be felt. Pain, despair, humiliation, disgust, and fear are no different. Once the vessel is full, the world can't add to it.” WorldWayDifferentPainSpiritFeltWaterMaterialsBearsLimitsDespairElementsStressAddBehaveMetalsDisgustingInherentHumiliationVesselMeltingBoilingBoiling Point Book:The Post-office Girl Source: The Post-office Girl
“Create all the happiness you are able to create: remove all the misery you are able to remove. Every day will allow you to add something to the pleasure of others, or to diminish something of their pains. And for every grain of enjoyment you sow in the bosom of another, you shall find a harvest in your own bosom; while every sorrow which you pluck out from the thoughts and feelings of a fellow creature shall be replaced by beautiful peace and joy in the sanctuary of your soul.” SoulFeelingsAblePainBeautifulJoyPleasureSorrowCreaturesFellowsAddMiseryYour SoulEnjoymentRemoveGrainReplacedHarvestDiminishBosomsSanctuaryThoughts And FeelingsPluckPeace And Joy Author:Jeremy Bentham
“No family of an American hostage has ever been prosecuted for paying a ransom for the return of their loved ones. The last thing we should ever do is to add to a family's pain.” ShouldPainLastsReturnAddLoved OnesHostageRansom Author:Mark Steyn
“When we do not reject our suffering, or add anything to it, pain is simply pain. It is what we add to our pain that turns it into suffering.” PainSufferingTurnsAddRejects Book:Zen and the Art of Falling in Love Source: Zen and the Art of Falling in Love
“The facts of our lives, when we are able to know them, will free us from the torment we are in. When we can bear reality thoroughly, suffering is over. Pain may exist, but it is only pain. Suffering is what we add to pain.” KnowsMayFactsRealityAblePainSufferingOur LivesBearsAddTormentPain Suffering Author:Brenda Shoshanna
“Yeah, leading an examined life, I always say, is a pain in the ass. It adds an element of complexity to business that most businessmen don't want to hear about. They just want to call a fabric manufacturer, and say, "Hey, give us 10,000 yards of shirting."” WantGivingPainBusinessElementsYeahAddAssHeyComplexityFabricYardsBusinessmanExamined Life Author:Yvon Chouinard
“I hate all pain, Given or received; we have enough within us The meanest vassal as the loftiest monarch, Not to add to each other's natural burden Of mortal misery.” EnoughPainHateGivenNaturalI HateAddMiseryBurdenMortalsMonarchs Author:Lord Byron