“Integral to being emotionally healthy is to have a mother who has the ability to respect her child's differences and not perceive them as betrayals.” IndividualityChildhood TraumaNarcissistic AbuseNarcissistic MotherEnmeshmentParental Conflict Book:When You and Your Mother Can't Be Friends: Resolving the Most Complicated Relationship of Your Life Source: When You and Your Mother Can't Be Friends: Resolving the Most Complicated Relationship of Your Life