“Growing up in Jamaica, the Pentecostal church wasn't that fiery thing you might think. It was very British, very proper. Hymns. No dancing. Very quiet. Very fundamental.” ThinkingMightChurchGrowing UpGrowingQuietFundamentalsDancingBritishHymnsFieryJamaicaPentecostal Author:Grace Jones
“Smoking is, if not my life, then at least my hobby. I love to smoke. Smoking is fun. Smoking is cool. Smoking is, as far as I am concerned, the entire point of being an adult. It makes growing up genuinely worthwhile. I am quite well aware of the hazards of smoking. Smoking is not a healthful pastime, it is true. Smoking is indeed no bracing dip in the ocean, no strenuous series of calisthenics, no two laps around the reservoir. On the other hand, smoking has to its advantage the fact that is a quiet pursuit. Smoking is, in effect a dignified sport.” IfsWellsTwoFactsHandsFunSportsGrowing UpGrowingEffectsQuietOceanAdultsAdvantageConcernedSeriesPursuitSmokeSmokingWorthwhileHobbiesLapHazardsDipPastimeReservoirsCalisthenics Book:The Fran Lebowitz Reader Source: The Fran Lebowitz Reader
“I've got a twin sister who's an artist and growing up I was always "the loud one." She's not actually quiet at all, but I would rather fill a gap with chatter and she would just let a gap be. So there was no inclination to actually perform.” ArtistGrowing UpGrowingQuietLoudGapsTwinsInclinationChatterTwin Sister Author:Sue Tompkins
“Growing up, I was constantly reminded to not to air our family's dirty laundry. Part of why domestic violence is allowed to continue is because there is often an unwritten rule in many families of abuse: Don't ask. Don't tell. Keeping quiet does no good. I found that sharing my story liberated me from my past. There is power in storytelling and, in that, healing. Owning my truth also empowered me. I will no longer be manipulated or controlled by guilt or shame.” PastHealingGrowing UpViolenceQuietAbuseShameGuiltStorytellingDirtyOur FamilyDomestic ViolenceEmpoweredMy PastLaundry Author:Kambri Crews