“Don't make a young person's behavior be about you. Never, "Oh, you're hurting me so much! You're going to be the end of me, but "It's hard to watch you hurting yourself this way." Teens will like your concern more if they feel it's for them and not yourself. Other ways of expressing your concern include: "You deserve better," and "You need to take better care of yourself.” Parenting TeensTeenagers And ParentsTeens And BehaviorTroubled TeensReaching Your TeenRelationship WorkTalking To Teens Author:Susan Noyes Anderson
“The ways that teenagers are - the supposedly immutable patterns of behavior culturally ascribed to teens - exist within society in which they are oppressed, stripped of power, surveilled (by parents or other guardians, schools, and by police), criminalized, and controlled. I would suggest that basing our understanding of teenage behavior on a population existing under oppression, shut away from the rest of society in schools, with very little power or freedom, does not represent an accurate picture of what teens are innately like. I would also suggest that much of what is cast as "bad" behavior is not inherently bad; it's simply inconvenient or dangerous to power.” OppressionTeensTeenagersAgeismYouth CultureOppression QuotesYouth LiberationTeens And BehaviorTeenage Behavior Author:Idzie Desmarais