“One day you’re going to get arrested, and when you do, don’t call me. I’ll tell the police to lock you up just to teach you a lesson.” Because there were some black parents who’d actually do that, not pay their kid’s bail, not hire their kid a lawyer—the ultimate tough love. But it doesn’t always work, because you’re giving the kid tough love when maybe he just needs love. You’re trying to teach him a lesson, and now that lesson is the rest of his life.” LoveBlackToughParentingJailChild RearingThe Hood Author:Trevor Noah, Born A Crime: Stories from a South African Childhood
“When most folks think about the problems of growing up in the hood, they think about what it must feel like to be poor, or hungry, or to have your lights cut off. The struggle nobody talk about is what it feel like to be invisible, or to know in your heart the nobody cares. Mama didn’t want to be famous, she wanted to be seen.” PoorStruggleUnlovedExtreme PovertyInvisible PeopleThe Hood Book:Rabbit: The Autobiography of Ms. Pat Source: Rabbit: The Autobiography of Ms. Pat