“Understate—or as Valentina said, 'diminish.' Let your face be more important than your costume. If you think you may be wearing too much jewelry, you are. Ask your husband how he thinks you look. If he says, 'That's a lovely dress,' try again. What he should say is, 'You look lovely!” StyleDiminishDressing UpDressingBeauty SecretWardrobe StylistStyle GuideDressing DownUnderstate Book:My Way of Life Source: My Way of Life