“There can be no easy reconciliations, only complicated truths, told without shame. The murderers among us would have us believe that history is slippery and unknowable. Insisting otherwise is an act of defense... But the past never goes away. The fear and pain are still there, buried in our brains like mines. It is better to defuse them than to leave them entombed, quietly, waiting for a single misstep. That is why I am telling my story.” HistoryTraumaRefugeeCambodian Vietnamese War Book:Slow Noodles: A Cambodian Memoir of Love, Loss, and Family Recipes Source: Slow Noodles: A Cambodian Memoir of Love, Loss, and Family Recipes