“Frozen in fear, you avoid responsibility because you think your experience is beyond your control. This stance keeps you from making decisions, solving problems, or going after what you want in life.” ThinkingWantProblemDecisionResponsibilityExperienceWhat You WantProblem SolvingFrozenStanceMaking DecisionsPersonal Power Author:David Emerald Womeldorff
“All victims have experienced a loss-a thwarted desire or aspiration-even if they're not aware of it.” IfsDesireLossExperienceVictimAspiration Author:David Emerald Womeldorff
“The way you talk about yourself and your life-your story-has a great deal to do with what shows up in your day-to-day experience. Your thoughts create filters through which you view your life. If you think of yourself as a Victim, you filter all that happens to you through the lens of DDT, and you find plenty of evidence to support that viewpoint. That's why the orientation you adopt is so important: it exerts a powerful influence on your life direction.” IfsThinkingWayImportantStoriesShowsHappensViewsDealsPowerfulSupportInfluenceEvidenceExperienceVictimPlentyAbout YourselfDay To DayLensesThink Of YouOrientationViewpointsFiltersLife DirectionDdt Author:David Emerald Womeldorff