“When you inhabit any of these three roles, you're reacting to fear of victimhood, loss of control, or loss of purpose. You're always looking outside yourself, to the people and circumstances of life, for a sense of safety, security, and sanity.” PeopleInspirationalPurposeThreeLossRolesSecurityCircumstancesSafetySanityReactingVictimhood Author:David Emerald Womeldorff
“All victims have experienced a loss-a thwarted desire or aspiration-even if they're not aware of it.” IfsDesireLossExperienceVictimAspiration Author:David Emerald Womeldorff
“Persecutors fear loss of control. Rescuers fear loss of purpose. Rescuers need Victims-someone to protect or fix-to bolster their self-esteem.” NeedsSelfPurposeFearLossSelf EsteemProtectVictimEsteem Author:David Emerald Womeldorff