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“On a cold April night three years ago, my father died a quiet death from cancer. His funeral was on a Wednesday, middle of the workweek. I had been numb for days when, for some reason, during the funeral, I turned and looked back at the folks in the church. The memory of it still takes my breath away. The most human, powerful and humbling thing I've ever seen was a church at 3:00 on a Wednesday full of inconvenienced people who believe in going to the funeral.” DeathHumanCancerFuneralDeath And Dying Book:Always Go to the Funeral: A 'This I Believe' Essay Source: Always Go to the Funeral: A 'This I Believe' Essay
“Perhaps I am a dark, unpleasant creature. But I am my own creature. I am mine, my feet on the earth and the water in my soul and fire in my heart. And when all is taken from me I will still have my anger and my pain and they will feed me.” PainWifeRegretForgivenessAngerResentmentSisterIrish MythologyStepmotherFoster Child Book:Savage Her Reply Source: Savage Her Reply
“You grew up soft. Your tender heart would nurse a frightened field mouse rescued from a trap. Would make a splint. You'd try to help but always it would die. You gave them names. You were a friendless child, a barrel-chested, sturdy little thing who played alone. You grew up soft, but still you learned to hide it. Piece by piece. The world's not built for soft and sturdy things. It likes its soft things small and white, defenceless. Princesses in castles. Maidens waiting for the perfect sword. You grew up soft, and piece by wounded piece you built a carapace around your body. Humans are peculiar little things.” Growing UpFeminismFairytales Book:Tangleweed and Brine Source: Tangleweed and Brine
“You thought if you were good. If you gave up the things that made you different. The world you know. That it would be enough. But sacrifice is often so invisible. People do not look for it in others. They know their own. They list them out like titles at a ball. I've done for you. I've done for you. I've done. And it is always your turn now. To hurt, to long. To be a broken thing. A thing that differs. Before, you always thought you were a person.” LoveSacrificeFeminismFairytaleFairytale Retelling Book:Tangleweed and Brine Source: Tangleweed and Brine
“There's an honesty and simplicity to Santa. He'd go down your chimney, but only with enthusiastic consent.” HumorSexSarcasmSanta Book:Precious Catastrophe Source: Precious Catastrophe
“You do not ask her if she even wants him. That is not at all what it's about. It's not about being sensible, or strong. It's not about being kind. It's not about the soft touch and the kind heart. Beauty and a womb. That's all you are. That's all an adder needs.” LoveBeautyFeminismFairytale RetellingFairytalesFairytale Retellings Book:Tangleweed and Brine Source: Tangleweed and Brine
“People like their women to be lovely. Women are a lot of different things.” InspirationalWomenFemenist Book:Tangleweed and Brine Source: Tangleweed and Brine
“It will probably leave a scar. But so does everything.” HurtDark HumorScars Book:Precious Catastrophe Source: Precious Catastrophe