“My biggest concern with positive affirmations is not so much whether they work or not, but that they reinforce this tyrannical imperative of positive thinking (and self-esteem). In this kingdom of positivity, there is no room for down days. When my friend cannot be positive, will she be even harder on herself? That’s the problem with positive thinking: it’s a plant with shallow roots. We need deep roots to sustain us through prolonged harsh conditions. Hence the insistence on planting self-worth in deep soil, below the shallow layer of all assessments.” Self EsteemPositive ThinkingSelf Worth Book:The Self-Worth Safari: Valuing Your Life and Your Work Source: The Self-Worth Safari: Valuing Your Life and Your Work