“If you ask an introvert a question, wait until she thinks about it. Introverts think before speaking, not through speaking. If you want to get to the good stuff, you need to slow down.” IfsThinkingWantNeedsAsksStuffWaitingIntrovertSlow Down Author:Laurie Helgoe
“One of the best places for a shy person to meet people is in a coffee shop. If you are a reader, bring a book and read it there - that gives a guy something to ask you about. Same goes for sketching, writing, or any hobby you can take with you.” PeopleIfsGivingWritingPersonsBookGuyAsksReaderCoffeeShopsShyHobbiesBest PlaceCoffee ShopSketchingShy Person Author:Laurie Helgoe
“Introvert, her brain responds with a high level of activity, it is as if several lights start flashing on a control panel.” IfsLightLevelsBrainActivityIntrovertHigh Level Author:Laurie Helgoe
“If the extrovert is trying to "cheer up" the introvert - extroverts are programmed to seek social rewards! - he or she may feel like a failure if the introvert remains unmoved.” IfsFeelsTryingMaySocialRemainsRewardsCheerIntrovertCheer UpExtroverts Author:Laurie Helgoe
“If the extrovert watches and listens a bit more, the introvert's true mood will become more evident.” IfsBitsWatchesMoodIntrovertEvidentExtroverts Author:Laurie Helgoe