“Commonality doesn't inoculate against hurt.” HurtCommonality Book:The Empathy Exams: Essays Source: The Empathy Exams: Essays
“We don't want to be wounds ("No, you're the wound!") but we should be allowed to have them, to speak about having them, to be something more than just another girl who has one. We should be able to do these things without failing the feminism of our mothers, and we should be able to represent women who hurt without walking backward into a voyeuristic rehashing of the old cultural models.” WantShouldAbleMotherGirlSpeakHurtFailingFeminismWalkingModelsWoundsOther GirlAnother Girl Book:The Empathy Exams: Essays Source: The Empathy Exams: Essays
“Post-wounded women know that postures of pain play into limited and outmoded conceptions of womanhood. Their hurt has a new native language spoken in several dialects: sarcastic, jaded, opaque; cool and clever. They guard against those moments when melodrama or self-pity might split their careful seams of intellect, expose the shame of self-absorption without self-awareness.” KnowsSelfPlayMomentsMightPainLanguageHurtAwarenessShameSelf AwarenessCarefulIntellectCleverPityPostsNativeSarcasticConceptionSplitsWoundedWomanhoodPostureSelf PityAbsorptionJadedDialectMelodramaSelf AbsorptionOpaqueNative Language Author:Leslie Jamison
