“Being over there changes a man. Right and wrong don't look so different anymore to some.” WarWrongRight Book:The Light Between Oceans Source: The Light Between Oceans
“What are you suggesting I do Ralph?’ ‘I’m suggesting you tell the bloody truth whatever it is. The only place lying leads is trouble.’ “Sometimes that’s the only place telling the truth get you, too.” TruthLiesTruth And Lies Book:The Light Between Oceans Source: The Light Between Oceans
“If the war had taught her anything, it was to take nothing for granted: that it wasn’t safe to put off what mattered. Life could snatch away the things you treasured, and there was no getting them back.” Life And LivingSiezing The Time Book:The Light Between Oceans Source: The Light Between Oceans
“And the stars: the sky gets crowded at night, and it is a bit like watching a clock, seeing the constellations slide across the sky. It’s comforting to know that they’ll show up, however bad the day has been, however crook things get. That used to help in France. It put things into perspective—the stars had been around since before there were people. They just kept shining, no matter what was going on. I think of the light here like that, like a splinter of a star that’s fallen to earth: it just shines, no matter what is happening. Summer, winter, storm, fine weather. People can rely on it.” StarsLife PhilosophyConstancy Book:The Light Between Oceans Source: The Light Between Oceans
“Christ--the quickest way to send a bloke mad is to let him go on re-fighting his war till he gets it right.” MadnessImperfection Book:The Light Between Oceans Source: The Light Between Oceans
“We think we know who we are: that each day will wake up more or less the same person. But just as rocks are weathered, we are perpetually formed and changed by time and experience until we leave this world with not a single cell we came with.” Change Book:A Far-Flung Life Source: A Far-Flung Life
“He was a practical man: give him a sensitive technical instrument, and he could maintain it; something broken, and he could mend it, meditatively, efficiently. But confronted by his grieving wife, he felt useless.” MenHusbandGrieving Book:The Light Between Oceans Source: The Light Between Oceans
“Sometimes, you're the one who strikes it lucky. Sometimes, it's the other poor bastard who's left with the short straw, and you just have to shut up and get on with it.” LifeLuckyIronyMoving OnUnlucky Book:The Light Between Oceans Source: The Light Between Oceans
“Then he remembered Ralph's words--"no point in fighting your war over and over until you get it right.” Moving On Book:The Light Between Oceans Source: The Light Between Oceans
“When you think about it, everyone's life's a prison - of days, sort of. The trick is to get comfortable in it, I reckon. Find your freedom inside whatever your prison is.” FreedomPrison Book:A Far-Flung Life Source: A Far-Flung Life
“Your family's never in your past. You carry it around with you everywhere.” PastFamilyIdentity Book:The Light Between Oceans Source: The Light Between Oceans
“Who could blame her for wanting the baby to be alive? His Irene still cried sometimes about young Billy, and it had been twenty years since he’d drowned as a tot. They’d had five more kids since then, but it was never far away, the sadness.” LossGriefLoss Of A Child Book:The Light Between Oceans Source: The Light Between Oceans
“Stick to now. Put right the things you can put right today, and let the ones from back then go. Leave the rest to the angels, or the devil or whoever's in charge of it.” PerspectiveLetting Go Book:The Light Between Oceans Source: The Light Between Oceans
“Coming back last time to the house she grew up in, Isabel had been reminded of the darkness that had descended with her brothers' deaths, how loss had leaked all over her mother's life like a stain. As a fourteen-year-old, Isabel had searched the dictionary. She knew that if a wife lost a husband, there was a whole new word to describe who she was: she was now a widow. A husband became a widower. But if a parent loss a child, there was no special label for their grief. They were still just a mother or a father, even if they no longer had a son or daughter. That seemed odd. As to her own status, she wondered whether she was still technically a sister, now that her adored brothers had died.” LossGriefFamilyParentsParenthoodSisterSiblingsBrothers Book:The Light Between Oceans Source: The Light Between Oceans
“The oceans never stop. They know no beginning or end. The wind never finishes. Sometimes it disappears, but only to gather momentum from somewhere else, returning to fling itself at the island, to make a point which is lost on Tom.” DeepOceansEndlessness Author:M.L. Stedman
“As Tom wandered back to Mrs Mewett’s, he thought about the little relics at the lighthouse – Docherty’s knitting, his wife’s jar of humbugs that sat untouched in the pantry. Lives gone, traces left. And he wondered about the despair of the man, destroyed by grief. It didn’t take a war to push you over that edge.” LifeDeathLossMourningThe Light Between Oceans Book:The Light Between Oceans Source: The Light Between Oceans
“Tom thought back to the imposing, empty house: to the silence that deadened every room with a subtly different pitch; to the kitchen smelling of carbolic, kept spotless by a long line of housekeepers. He remembered that dreaded smell of Lux flakes, and his distress as he saw the handkerchief, washed and starched by Mrs Someone-or-other, who had discovered it in the pocket of his shorts and laundered it as a matter of course, obliterating his mother’s smell. He had searched the house for some corner, some cupboard which could bring back that blurry sweetness of her. But even in what had been her bedroom, there was only polish, and mothballs, as though her ghost had finally been exorcised.” DeathLossMourningThe Light Between Oceans Book:The Light Between Oceans Source: The Light Between Oceans
“The town draws a veil over certain events. This is a small community where everyone knows that sometimes the contract to forget is as important as any promise to remember. Children can grow up having no knowledge of the indiscretion of their father in his youth or the illegitimate sibling who lives fifty miles away and bears another man’s name. History is that which is agreed upon by mutual consent. That’s how life goes on; protected by the silence that anaesthetises shame.” Small TownsThe Nature Of History Book:The Light Between Oceans Source: The Light Between Oceans
“There are still more days to travel in this life. And he knows that the man who makes the journey has been shaped by every day and every person along the way. Scars are just another kind of memory. Isabel is part of him, wherever she is, just like the war and the light and the ocean. Soon enough the days will close over their lives, the grass will grow over their graves, until their story is just an unvisited headstone. He watches the ocean surrender to the night, knowing that the light will reappear.” End Of LifeLife Goes OnLife S StoryPeace At The End Of Life Book:The Light Between Oceans Source: The Light Between Oceans
“Later still, the war memorials would sprout from the earth, dwelling not on the loss, but on what the loss had won, and what a fine thing it was to be victorious. “Victorious and dead,” some muttered, “is a poor sort of victory.” War Memorials Book:The Light Between Oceans Source: The Light Between Oceans