Quotessence
Home / Books / No One Belongs Here More Than You

No One Belongs Here More Than You

Book by Miranda July · 11 quotes · Friends, Men, Advice

Filter quotes by topic

AllFriendsMenAdviceBetrayalCommon SenseConnectionConnection With OthersConnection With PeopleCounselingDeathDreamsDyingDynamicFriendshipHumourIcebreakersLifeMedical ProfessionMelancholyMetaphor

No One Belongs Here More Than You Quotes

“I wonder, for instance, if our laws reflect some deep aversion amongst medical professionals here towards the idea of relinquishing control of the dying process into the hands of the patient. I wonder if this aversion might stem from a more general belief in the medical profession that death represents a form of failure. And I wonder if this belief hasn’t seeped out into the wider world in the form of an aversion to the subject of death per se, as if the stark facts of mortality can be banished from our consciousness altogether.”

DeathDyingMedical Profession
Book:No One Belongs Here More Than You
Create image

“But Ed [the family counselor] wasn't fazed; in fact, he suggested the dynamic had served each of us well. Something in the way he said this gave me the feeling that the dynamic was moving on, perhaps down the block, where it would serve some other confused family. And we would be left dynamic-less, four people alone with all the wrong feelings for one another.”

MetaphorTherapyCounselingDynamic
Book:No One Belongs Here More Than You
Create image

“Past a certain age, they give up on the name games, which is regrettable for someone like me who loves anything that involves going around a circle and saying something about yourself. I wish there was a class where we could just keep going around the circle, around and around, until we had finally said everything about ourselves.”

ConnectionConnection With PeopleConnection With OthersIcebreakers
Book:No One Belongs Here More Than You
Create image

“In the recurring dream everything has already fallen down, and I’m underneath. I’m crawling, sometimes for days, under the rubble. And as I crawl I realize that this one was the Big One. It was the earthquake that shook the whole world, and every single thing was destroyed. But this isn’t the scary part. That part always comes right before I wake up. I am crawling and then suddenly I remember: the earthquake happened years ago. This pain, this dying, this is just normal. This is how life is. In fact, I realize, there never was an earthquake. Life is just this way, broken, and I am crazy for dreaming something else.”

LifeDreams
Book:No One Belongs Here More Than You
Create image