Quotessence
Home / Authors / Sonali Deraniyagala

Sonali Deraniyagala Quotes

Author

Filter quotes by topic

AllGriefLossMourningPainful MemoriesAvoidanceGrievingRealityTraumatic ExperiencesUnrealAnniversariesChangeDeceptionDerealizationDespairDisbeliefDissociatedDissociationEmotional DistressEmotional PainGrief And Ioss

Famous Sonali Deraniyagala Quotes

“I steer clear of telling. I can't come out with it. The outlandish truth of me. How can I reveal this to someone innocent and unsuspecting? With those who know my story I talk freely about us.... But with others I keep it hidden, the truth. I keep it under wraps because I don't want to shock or make anyone distressed. But it's not like me to be cagey in my interactions.... But now I try to keep a distance from those who are innocent of my reality. At best I am vague. I feel deceitful at times. But I can't just drop it on someone, I feel--it's too horrifying, too huge. It's not that I should be honest with everyone, the white lies I tell strangers I don't mind. But there are those I see time and again, have drinks with, share jokes, and even they don't know. They see my cheery side. And I kick myself for being a fraud.... I can see, though, that my secrecy does me no favors. It probably makes worse my sense of being outlandish. It confirms to me that it might be abhorrent, my story, or that few can relate to it.”

TruthLossGriefHonestyLiesDeceptionMourning
Book:Wave
Create image