“The only calibration that counts is how much heart people invest, how much they ignore their fears of being hurt or caught out or humiliated. And the only thing people regret is that they didn't live boldly enough, that they didn't invest enough heart, didn't love enough. Nothing else really counts at all.” PeopleHeartEnoughFearHurtRegretCaughtHumiliatedBeing HurtCalibration Book:Letters of Ted Hughes Source: Letters of Ted Hughes
“I think it was Milosz, the Polish poet, who when he lay in a doorway and watched the bullets lifting the cobbles out of the street beside him realised that most poetry is not equipped for life in a world where people actually die. But some is.” PeopleThinkingWorldDiesStreetsPoetLaysPoetry IsBulletsPolishRealisedLiftingDoorways Author:Ted Hughes
“And that's how we measure out our real respect for people—by the degree of feeling they can register, the voltage of life they can carry and tolerate—and enjoy. End of sermon. As Buddha says: live like a mighty river. And as the old Greeks said: live as though all your ancestors were living again through you.” PeopleSaidRealEndsFeelingsEnjoyDegreesRiversGreekAncestorTolerateSermonsRegisterVoltageOld Greek Author:Ted Hughes
“That's the paradox: the only time most people feel alive is when they're suffering, when something overwhelms their ordinary, careful armour, and the naked child is flung out onto the world. That's why the things that are worst to undergo are best to remember. But when that child gets buried away under their adaptive and protective shells—he becomes one of the walking dead, a monster.” PeopleWorldFeelsChildrenRememberSufferingAliveWorstWalkingOrdinaryCarefulMonstersNakedParadoxBuriedShellsOnly TimeProtectiveArmourAdaptiveWalking Dead Book:Letters of Ted Hughes Source: Letters of Ted Hughes