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“The minute a giver realizes that the majority of people did not need help, they were just taking advantage of their kindness, they stop helping, even in cases where others now require real help, because they end up assuming everyone is an ungrateful taker, based on their experience. It is very important for a giver to learn the art of giving so that they can give well and not be taken advantage of.”

“The biggest challenge with givers is that they always realise too late when the damage has been done to them by the takers. To a certain extent, they may even feel no need to give to others after being exploited. For givers not to grow weary along the way, they need to evaluate if they are giving to the people who need real help and ensure their level of giving is alienable to them to retain their blessings.”

“You can be the sweetest person on earth but giving too much without receiving can be counterproductive in other areas of your life. Sometimes you give too much advice and expect it to be taken because, according to you, it is the right thing to do. One of the challenges for givers is that they feel good about giving and bad about receiving, which could portray them as hard to live with sometimes.”

“One of the hardest things about givers is that they find it hard to receive. Sometimes we ask ourselves why good people are unlucky when it comes to relationships. It is because they give a lot and hardly receive. It is sometimes harder for givers to be compatible with their partners. They often give more, with no capacity to receive much. In the end, a man or woman feels like the giver is in control of the relationship, and nobody wants to be with a controller.”