“The minute a giver realizes that the majority of people did not need help, they were just taking advantage of their kindness, they stop helping, even in cases where others now require real help, because they end up assuming everyone is an ungrateful taker, based on their experience. It is very important for a giver to learn the art of giving so that they can give well and not be taken advantage of.” PeopleInspirationalKindnessAdvantageMajorityAssumingUngratefulMinute Author:ThandazoPerfectKhumalo
“Many dishonest people are drawn to givers because they know that being around a giver is good for them without them having to do anything in return.” PeopleInspirationalReturnLifelessonsWithoutDishonestGivers Good Author:ThandazoPerfectKhumalo
“Kindness to other is not all about neglecting yourself in the process. It is all about loving yours first and doing unto others what you can beat do to yourself.” InspirationalProcessKindnessLovingYourselfNeglectingThandazo Author:ThandazoPerfectKhumalo
“We live in a world where takers no longer care about the long-term effects of their selfishness. They are more than willing to keep taking, without even thinking about the needs of the givers. That is why givers need to be well-prepared to look after themselves because if they don’t, nobody can do that for them.” WorldInspirationalWillingLife PhilosophySelfishLiveLongtermPrepaid Author:ThandazoPerfectKhumalo
“Givers need to realise that nobody was born to give without receiving. As givers give, they should also learn how to receive.” InspirationalLife LessonsLearnNobodyRealiseGiversRecieving Author:ThandazoPerfectKhumalo
“Givers are their own abusers sometimes, because they give their power to abusers and selfish people without even realising it. Their focus is usually on giving, helping others, and creating a peaceful environment. Thus, in a world where there are heartless takers or abusers, givers need to be self-aware so they will not be taken advantage of” InspirationalPowerEnvironmentFocusSelfishPeacefulHeartlessLifelessonsGiversSelfaware Author:ThandazoPerfectKhumalo