“You're married to a woman who has no objection to another woman joining the couple. Then she brings in her boyfriend. Suddenly you realize - my God! - you can love more than one person. In fact, you can love several people at the same time.” PeoplePersonsFactsRealizingCoupleMarriedJoiningObjectionsAnother Woman Author:Volkmar Sigusch
“There are many options in a marriage. If the couple has been together for a certain amount of time and has a certain amount of liberalism or life experience, it could be the kind of relationship in which one partner ventures into the occasional affair, which is then forgiven. This only happens every 13 years on average, but it obviously does occur.” IfsYearsKindDoeHas BeensHappensTogetherCertainAmountCoupleAffairAveragePartnersLiberalismLife ExperienceVentureForgivenOccasional Author:Volkmar Sigusch
“With an intelligent couple, it ought to be possible for the husband or wife to look for satisfaction outside the relationship - while always taking the partner into consideration, meaning acting openly but still discreetly.” LooksStillsActingWifeOughtCoupleHusbandIntelligentSatisfactionPartnersConsideration Author:Volkmar Sigusch
“It's important for a couple to talk about their sexual preferences. On the other hand, the aura of the mysterious should be preserved.” ShouldImportantHandsCoupleMysteriousPreferenceAuras Author:Volkmar Sigusch
“Perhaps the couple got married at 25 and now they're 45 and this is an option. And if a couple is still together, or perhaps finds its way back together, I like to say that it's forever. They belong together, it's a good fit, it's the right pairing. It almost gives me goose bumps.” IfsWayGivingStillsTogetherForeverCoupleFitMarriedGive MeBumpsGeeseBack Together Author:Volkmar Sigusch
“Aura of the mysterious is a minor perversion that a couple shares. A fetish that one of the two partners finds arousing, or a particular sexual scenario. Fantasies have to remain dirty. Cleanliness, scrupulousness and rationality are poison for eroticism.” TwoFantasyShareParticularCouplePartnersMysteriousDirtyPoisonMinorsRationalityScenariosCleanlinessAurasPerversionFetish Author:Volkmar Sigusch
