“When someone is hurt and we hear ourselves saying "I don't understand, why" PAUSE At the pause, ask "What am I missing here ?" At the pause, stop judging, stop reacting, get curious and believe their hurt state At the pause, tap into their heart and mind. Now see how this pause transforms the conversation.” HurtCompassionUnderstanding OthersWordions ComWordionsPauseHurting OthersStop Judging Author:Wordions
“The lack of understanding does not hurt, as much as the lack of effort to understand does !” UnderstandingHurtWordions ComWordionsLack Of Understanding Author:Wordions
“The only way to understand the reason behind someone's hurtful behaviour is - Understanding that every action is driven by an underlying emotion. Emotions especially the negative one's are our reactions to the conflict between our beliefs and reality. The influence of these negative emotions, causes us to act in ways that hurt others. So if someone hurts you, it actually indicates that they have an unsatisfied need or a wound that needs attention.” HurtEmotionsWoundsWordions ComWordionsNegative EmotionsWoundednessUnsatisfied Need Author:Wordions