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“Anytime you have a negative feeling toward anyone, you're living in an illusion. There's something seriously wrong with you. You're not seeing reality. Something inside of you has to change. But what do we generally do when we have a negative feeling? "He is to blame, she is to blame. She's got to change." No! The world's all right. The one who has to change is you.”

Quote by Anthony de Mello

Book:Awareness: Conversations with the Masters

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Awareness: Conversations with the Masters

This book presents a compilation of conversations with various spiritual leaders and philosophical thinkers, exploring profound insights into the nature of consciousness and self-awareness. The discussions delve into the complexities of human perception, the nature of reality, and the pursuit of spiritual enlightenment. more

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Anthony de Mello

Anthony de Mello was an Indian writer, psychologist, and spiritual guide. His works, which blend Eastern philosophy with Western psychology, have been highly appreciated by readers. Born on September 4, 1931, he passed away on June 2, 1987. more

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