“A human moment is a term I invented to distinguish in-person communication from electronic. Human moments are exponentially more powerful than electronic ones. I mean face-to-face, in-person contact and communication. I have identified several modern paradoxes and the first is that, for various reasons, we have grown electronically superconnected but we have simultaneously grown emotionally disconnected from each other.” MeanReasonMomentsTermPowerfulModernCommunicationVariousParadox Author:Edward Hallowell
“Modern loneliness is an extraverted loneliness, in which the person is surrounded by many people and partakes of much communication but feels unrecognized and more alone and, although connected technically, isolated and even estranged emotionally.” PeopleModernLonelinessCommunication Author:Edward Hallowell
“The studies indicate that focusing our attention on someone else, takes our mind off of our own problems. We stay healthier and thereby live longer.” MindProblemAttentionStudy Author:Allen Klein
“From the biological standpoint, people deprived of the human moment in their day-to-day business dealings, actually in all domains of their lives, are losing brain cells - literally - while those who cultivate the human moment are growing them.” PeopleMomentsBrainLosing Author:Edward Hallowell
“People associate hard work and overload with stress. But, like suffering, stress is complicated. Bad stress is stress that a system can't endure without suffering damage. It is unplanned, uncontrolled, allows no time for rest and recovery, and exceeds the capacity of the system to adjust to it. As the popular phrase suggests, it burns people out and, over time, it can decimate an entire workforce.” PeopleSufferingHard WorkStressEndureComplicatedRecovery Author:Edward Hallowell
“Lack of respect for the worker. This nourishes disconnection, fear, anger, phoniness, and all the bad stuff that impedes excellence.” ExcellenceDisconnectionLack Of Respect Author:Edward Hallowell
“I wrote Her First American and I always say it took me eighteen years. It took me that long was because after about five years I stopped and wrote Lucinella. I got stuck; it was too hard to write. Lucinella felt like a lark. I wanted to write about the literary circle because it amused me, and I allowed myself to do what I wanted to do. It's just one of the things I'm allowed to do if I feel like it.” WritingLongStuckEighteen Author:Lore Segal
“I'm always amused by the way questions are asked. "What did you intend?" That's not even a recognizable verb. You don't intend when you write. You sit down and you're thinking things and dreaming things and someone says something and you think "Ah!" That's how it happens. Intention is not part of the game.” ThinkingWritingDreamIntention Author:Lore Segal
“There seems to me now to be the notion that you send something to a journal or an agent and months go by. It seems to me like that is a new piece of bad manners. Probably. Generally I assume that anything that happens now happened to Adam and Eve also.” AssumingMannersAdam And EveBad Manners Author:Lore Segal
“There are two responses to really awful things. One is to lament and say, "Oh my God, oh lord." And the other is to laugh at it a little bit, try your best to deal with it and, if you can, forget about it as soon as possible.” TryingForgetLordLaughingResponseLament Author:James McBride