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“One thing that differentiates actual victimhood from a victim mentality is the presence of Envy. The former requires outer work while the latter, inner work. Resist becoming too resentful in life to learn and discern excellence.”

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Criss Jami
Criss Jami

Criss Jami is a contemporary poet known for his profound philosophical thoughts and unique poetic style. Born on May 29, 1987, he has shown a passion for literature and philosophy from a young age, which is evident in his works. more

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