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“Then he asked my age, and I asked his. That's the tradition in China. If we know each other's ages we can understand each other's past. We chinese have been collective for so long, personal histories are not worth mentioning. Therefore as soon as Xiaolin and I knew how old the other was, we knew exactly what big shit happened in our lives. The introduction of the One Child Policy shortly before our births, for instance, and the fact that, in 1985, two pandas were sent to the USA as a national gift and we had to sing a tearful panda song at school. 1989 was the Tiananment Square student demonstration.”

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Book:Twenty Fragments of a Ravenous Youth

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Twenty Fragments of a Ravenous Youth

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Xiaolu Guo

Guo Xiaolu is a renowned Chinese novelist whose works delve into themes of identity, culture, and the human condition. Born in 1973, she has gained acclaim for her distinctive narrative style and insightful exploration of the complexities of modern life. more

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