“Safeword - facilitating instant distinctions when time is short, and risks are high. You put everything you are into that collection of letters. You give your vulnerability and control; you pledge your life to that one sound. Capable of wielding such power over you, there is a heaviness that comes with selecting something,g which you consider a vital connection to your existence. of course, that wasn't true for all, but for us, it was special.”
Book:A Sinful Sacrifice