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“Parents who have more than one child are very aware that, while we certainly have an impact on our child's development, it has as much to do with them as with us. "I can't believe how different my kids are" should inform us that child development is an uneven process only partly tied to parenting (and no one knows exactly how much that "partly" is).”

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Book:Ready or Not: Preparing Our Kids to Thrive in an Uncertain and Rapidly Changing World
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