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“Because God is a God of mercy and His mercy endures forever, you can trust that he will have mercy on you (See: 1 Chronicles 17:13). Therefore you can show mercy to your spouse by forgiving whenever he (she) does or says something that hurts or disturbs you.”

Quote by Stormie Omartian

Book:The Power of PrayerTM to Change Your Marriage

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The Power of PrayerTM to Change Your Marriage

This book explores the role of prayer in enhancing and healing marriages. It offers guidance on how to incorporate prayer into daily life to foster stronger, more resilient partnerships. more

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Stormie Omartian

Stormie Omartian is an American author born on September 16, 1942. Her works primarily focus on Christian spirituality and personal growth, which have won her a wide following among readers. more

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