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“One becomes more interested in a job of work after the first impulse to drop it has been overcome.”

Quote by Fulton J. Sheen

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Fulton J. Sheen
Fulton J. Sheen

Fulton J. Sheen, an American television evangelist, was born on May 8, 1895, and passed away on December 9, 1979. Known for his unique charm and wisdom, he spread Christian faith to a global audience through his television programs, becoming one of the most influential religious leaders of the 20th century. more

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