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“Use the words "I feel because I" to remind us that what we feel it isn't because of what the other person did, but because of a choice I've made.”

Quote by Marshall B. Rosenberg

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Marshall B. Rosenberg

Marshall B. Rosenberg was a renowned psychologist known for his theory of Nonviolent Communication. His theory emphasizes the importance of listening and expressing needs to promote harmonious relationships. Rosenberg was born on October 6, 1934, and passed away on February 7, 2015. more

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